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HeatherIjames - > I Have to Laugh or I'll Cry -> IF I Ever Have Children
IF I Ever Have Children

I was perusing on Youtube and stumbled across a video regarding random acts of kindness.  The gentleman, in monologue form, went on for over seven minutes about making the world a better place though one small kind act after another. 

In the middle of his lamenting over all the tragedy prevalent in the world today, he said something that struck me to the core like little has recently.  He said, and I quote, "What can we do about it?  What can we do to make this world a  better place? I kind of feel helpless.  I kind of feel like I can only do so much.  If I ever have children, I can raise them a certain way...." 

But, I, I do have children.  It took this man on YouTube to remind me the obligation within my hands, within my voice, within my actions.  If I ever have children....  This man was quite astute in concluding that the power to make the world a better place is truly one child at a time.  

To teach our sons to respect women.  From holding the door open for them, to never pressuring them into physical acts.  To teach our daughters to respect themselves.  From having a mind of their own, to accepting they are beautiful just as God made them.  To show our children that lying is lying from saying they're younger than they are at the buffet, to missing curfew.  To instill in our children that everyone is loved and precious because God loves them all and finds each precious.  

What a power, don't you see?  What a tremendous privilege.  If one man thinks he can change the world if he ever has children, what are we parents waiting for?

 

  

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posted by bushelandapeck on Jun 10, 2008 at 07:54 AM

Oh, yes, we can change the world.  And we tell the kiddo that she is a world changer, history maker, & atmosphere shifter.  Oh, and we tell her she's a princess :)  And yes, it is a privilege, a blessing beyond words.

posted by Mom2CandC on Jun 25, 2008 at 12:30 PM

Isn't this the truth?  Teaching our kids by being the example, and trying to explain to them when something is not exactly as we would like it to be...I do agree 100%.  Interesting point, I was talking to my mom last night about how we were going through a box we had brought home this weekend from my grandma's house - Colby was there with us while we packed it and he "helped pack" each item handmade by great-grandma with care...very sweet!  Anyway, Colby is still talking about how we are sharing everything and making sure we ask before we take something from great-grandma's house....and how he loved the  plate my mom had given to him after he asked who was going to take home this beautiful plate (about a million times).  He and I talked about sharing the many treasures left by great-grandma and how we want to make sure we share things with everyone in the family - pictures, dishes, memories...  I was also going through dishes given to me by grandma, and sending a few to my brother and his wife in Montana.  Colby was impressed with this and said, "Mom, that is so nice to share great-grandma's special dishes!"  How much better can it get?      

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