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TwinZebra - > Single mothering -> creepy crawlies
creepy crawlies

The day before yesterday K. found a black widow spider in the garage. She and J. were gaping: "oooo, big black spider!"

I wasn't thinking "dangerous poisonous creature" as I headed over. I was more in, "Ick, yucky, get away" mode when I sauntered over from where I was working in the garden to have a look. But although I am not an entomologist, I know a scary bug when I see one, and black widows are decidedly scary looking.

I went inside and Googled for pictures to confirm the guess. Photo was dead on (pun intended). So I went back out with a can of Raid and blasted the sucker, which had made a nice big web on the side of my $2,000 leather couch. (I know I should get it out of the 100-degree garage but I'm still in denial about living with my mother. It comforts me to know I will have furniture when I move out).

After the beast was slain, I sat the kids down and explained that this particular spider was bad, very bad, and if they see one again they are to run away and tell a grown up as soon as possible.

K., the thrill seeker, then offers that her science day camp had a tarantula as the "animal of the week" not long ago, brought over by an employee of CALM, our pitiful excuse for a zoo here. Everybody got to pet the tarantula, and apparently this spider handler didn't bother to explain to the very young children stroking the furry thing that it's generally not a good idea to pet tarantulas encountered in the wild. K. wanted to know why it was OK to pet tarantulas and not black widows.

Made a mental note to ask the director of that program to provide a little context next time they drop dangerous critters in my child's midst.

Meanwhile, the pesticide people are coming to treat the garage today. Not sure what the environmental PC meter says about spraying mists of poison all over a couch I hope to sit on again some day, not to mention the stacks of boxes of books lining the garage walls. Probably there are spider eggs in those boxes and I will open up a book one day to find some big black monster crawling around on the page.
 

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posted by TwinZebra on Thursday, August 7, 2008 at 10:31 AM
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posted by Mom2CandC on Aug 8, 2008 at 08:55 AM

I HATE spiders, bugs and anything that does not belong in the home....when we moved into our home that had been vacant for some time, ants were my main issue.  We tried everything....nothing worked!  Finally, I was complaining to a dear friend, and she recommend the pest control service I LOVE!  Killian Pest Control wiped out those ants in less than a week and they have never been back!  They come once a month for a reasonable price - no service contract requirements, and very pleasant service!  They call the day before they come, and are careful to not spray when the boys are peeking out the doors.  (I was concerned about my youngest and his asthma issues....has not been a problem!)  I talked to the pediatrician about it, and she said that the exposure to the germs and bacteria is worse than a little residue from the bug spray.  Keep the kids away from the spray when it's wet, and any powder residue that may be left when it is dry....keep an eye out for more bugs.....especially under the couch, pillows, and inside the flaps of boxes....

Also, if you want to scare your kids into not touching black widow spiders, google their bites and show the kids the damage they do.   

posted by bushelandapeck on Aug 9, 2008 at 09:01 AM

Eww!  My daughter has inherited my extreme dislike of bugs.  It's a blessing and a curse.

yeah, be careful opening up any boxes you have in the garage - spider heaven!  Be prepared with a shoe in hand.

I'm sure your sofa will be fine,  but it would be better if it were inside.  A leather sofa needs attention; it needs to feel appreciated.   Bring that puppy in!  :)

 

posted by TwinZebra on Aug 9, 2008 at 06:24 PM

I can't bring in the leather couch. Believe me, I 've tried.

Problem is my mother already had her own furniture before I moved in with her. Not like I moved into an empty house. There was only one room that could possibly accomodate it, the home office. But the couch is too wide to make the turn in the hallway to get it through the door.

So, in the garage it sits.

Obviously I don't plan to live with my mother forever, so I'm really loath to sell it. But it doesn't make sense to pay $200 a month for storage when I'm going to be here at least three years. After that amount of time, I could have bought a brand new one.

So in the garage it stays. I will continue to dust, oil and clear it of spider webs.

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