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I often think about what kind of inheritance I will leave for my daughter and our children to come.  And I'm not talking about a monetary inheritance.  No, I think about the core stuff - spiritual, emotional, intellectual . . . inheritance.  I believe we pass along so much to our children - the good, the bad and the ugly. 

The first post I wrote on this site was about beautiful Bakersfield.  I really mean that - I think this city is beautiful.  So many people, natives of Bakersfield, visitors and folks who've never been here before, speak negatively of our city.  Have you heard the insulting jokes made about Bakersfield?  I cringe each time I hear that gunk.  Those negative words do no good.  In fact, they're harmful.  They influence people's thinking and create an atmosphere contrary to this city's destiny (yes, I believe there is a wonderful destiny/plan/purpose for our city). 

Now, we're also talking about my child's inheritance when we talk about Bakersfield.  How is she going to see this city?  What will she speak about this city?  I want her to know that she has the power to  influence and change the atmosphere around her.  I want her inheritance in Bakersfield to be rich and full of life, love, peace &  joy.  I want her to know that she is one who makes this city beautiful.

So, how do pass along this attitude/belief/power to my child? 

Well, I had an idea last night as I was wandering the downtown street faire.  I will  only speak positively of my community (pretty much have that one down), and for every negative I hear spoken over our city, I will counter it with two positives.  You see, I believe my words have power.  And just as light continues to travel for a very long time, so does sound.  That means my words are out there for a good, long while.  In doing so, I model for the kiddo how to shape the world around her while I shape the world she's in.

Anyone want to join me?