http://www.raisingbakersfield.com/home/Blog/Amber Thoughts and comments on life as a stay at home to 2 kids. en-us http://www.raisingbakersfield.com/home/Blog/Amber/29553 <p>Is it just me, or is the life of a stay at home mom something that resembles Groundhog Day?&nbsp; I am such a structured person and it is hard for me to take my kids off schedule.&nbsp; Naps at this time everyday.....&nbsp; Trying to find something to do to kill the time before lunch and nap.&nbsp; Being a SAHM is TRULY the hardest job I've ever done - (and I've done a lot of jobs!!)&nbsp; I love my kids more than anything, but I also miss that life of mine that existed before I got pregnant the first time.&nbsp; My husband and I dined out and had cocktails and traveled - now bathtime is at 7 and bedtime at 8 and I am ready to pass out by 10.&nbsp; Every single day is the exact repeat of the previous and I am looking for something to pass the time with the kids in the morning for a couple hours - any ideas??!!!!!&nbsp; It's getting too darn hot to go to the park lately.</p>