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        <title>A special oppurtunity - oh my 2 Girls! - miamiacouture&apos;s Blog - Raising Bakersfield</title>
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        <description>My little 7 month old has cried from the moment she entered the womb and has&#039;nt really stopped since.... she is the most adorable little person and such a charmer, but when she&#039;s mad, watch out!&amp;nbsp; There is no in between with her, She&#039;s ANGRY or HAPPY, that&#039;s it!
So it was no surprise that she did&#039;nt stop screaming when we left the hospital ( i was praying for a small miracle, as she was the loudest baby in the there), she continued to scream, non stop until she hit about 6 months old and then it started to die down a bit.&amp;nbsp; The worst was in the car!&amp;nbsp; She would scream from point A to point B, no matter what we did.&amp;nbsp; So on many trips i would have to stop the car and get out and hold her for a few minutes and then continue on our way.&amp;nbsp; All she wanted was to be close to me and she was fine.
Bedtime is the same way, i lay her down and for about the first hour, she wakes up every five minutes wanting to breastfeed and be held.&amp;nbsp; After about the 10th time of doing this it starts to get a bit frustrating and as i was standing, holding her one night, breastfeeding, i realized that i have no reason to be frustrated!&amp;nbsp; I am so fortunate to have a baby that wants to be loved!&amp;nbsp; This special time goes by so fast and i am lucky enough, that i get to hug her and love her even when she&#039;s trying to sleep at night.&amp;nbsp;
From that day (my only frustrating experience with her) i have looked at her crying as a oppurtunity to give love and for her to receive it.&amp;nbsp; Having a colicky or &amp;quot;high needs&amp;quot; baby as i like to call it, has been a blessing not a burden.&amp;nbsp; Many people asked me &#039;how on earth can you handle that?&amp;quot; and my reply is &#039;handle what?&amp;quot;
She may sound like i am pinching her when she cries (she gets soooo angry, from the very first cry) but she just wants a hug, a love, a cuddle and i am so fortunate that i am the one that gets to be the giver of this!&amp;nbsp; This perspective helped me through many tear filled nights, pacing the floor, wondering if something was horribly wrong with my baby.&amp;nbsp; But as i learned, it was the best OPPURTUNITY i was ever given.</description>
        <itunes:summary>My little 7 month old has cried from the moment she entered the womb and has&#039;nt really stopped since.... she is the most adorable little person and such a charmer, but when she&#039;s mad, watch out!&amp;nbsp; There is no in between with her, She&#039;s ANGRY or HAPPY, that&#039;s it!
So it was no surprise that she did&#039;nt stop screaming when we left the hospital ( i was praying for a small miracle, as she was the loudest baby in the there), she continued to scream, non stop until she hit about 6 months old and then it started to die down a bit.&amp;nbsp; The worst was in the car!&amp;nbsp; She would scream from point A to point B, no matter what we did.&amp;nbsp; So on many trips i would have to stop the car and get out and hold her for a few minutes and then continue on our way.&amp;nbsp; All she wanted was to be close to me and she was fine.
Bedtime is the same way, i lay her down and for about the first hour, she wakes up every five minutes wanting to breastfeed and be held.&amp;nbsp; After about the 10th time of doing this it starts to get a bit frustrating and as i was standing, holding her one night, breastfeeding, i realized that i have no reason to be frustrated!&amp;nbsp; I am so fortunate to have a baby that wants to be loved!&amp;nbsp; This special time goes by so fast and i am lucky enough, that i get to hug her and love her even when she&#039;s trying to sleep at night.&amp;nbsp;
From that day (my only frustrating experience with her) i have looked at her crying as a oppurtunity to give love and for her to receive it.&amp;nbsp; Having a colicky or &amp;quot;high needs&amp;quot; baby as i like to call it, has been a blessing not a burden.&amp;nbsp; Many people asked me &#039;how on earth can you handle that?&amp;quot; and my reply is &#039;handle what?&amp;quot;
She may sound like i am pinching her when she cries (she gets soooo angry, from the very first cry) but she just wants a hug, a love, a cuddle and i am so fortunate that i am the one that gets to be the giver of this!&amp;nbsp; This perspective helped me through many tear filled nights, pacing the floor, wondering if something was horribly wrong with my baby.&amp;nbsp; But as i learned, it was the best OPPURTUNITY i was ever given.</itunes:summary>
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                <title>Jul 17,  2008 at 07:07 AM : What a great attitude....</title>
                <description>&lt;p&gt;What a great attitude. I rocked both my girls to sleep and we were co-sleepers too. I know that&#039;s not everyone&#039;s style but I loved it and savoured it because I knew it wouldn&#039;t last forever.&lt;/p&gt;
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                <itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;What a great attitude. I rocked both my girls to sleep and we were co-sleepers too. I know that&#039;s not everyone&#039;s style but I loved it and savoured it because I knew it wouldn&#039;t last forever.&lt;/p&gt;
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