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I don't respond to tattling unless there is some indication of injury, and even then, it's rarely for discipline, but just to make sure we don't need another trip to the E.R. I've told them enough times that if you don't like what someone is doing, then don't play with them or don't sit within arm's reach.  Now, when they tattle (which is less and less), my complete lack of response actually speaks that to them.  Now if I CATCH them behaving in a way that they like to tattle for, that's a different story.  Time-outs or take aways are then put into place. But I don't acknowledge tattling.  I want them to learn to solve their problem or at least learn to try.  I HAVE made it clear that they can tell me what their sibling is doing if there is a self-imposed danger and they already tried telling the sibling to "Stop, that is dangerous."  Other than that, deal with it on your own. The "plan" is making progress.  We'll see how it...
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