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right there with you. I put a quick end to most adoption conversations, because I want to avoid the same comments and questions you listed. The worst one is, "why don't you go to another country?" or "why don't you adopt from the U.S.?" If people want to know the answers after reading this comment, let me know, but most of the time I don't care to answer them anymore. One of the other hard parts for us is that it hurts to always be thinking about her, knowing that we won't have her for quite a while, so we sorta push her to the back of our minds some days. But then that hurts too, when we realize that we've made the choice, consciously or subconsciously, to do that. One day, this will all just be stories that we tell her.

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